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3 Signs You’re a Masculine Woman & How to Balance Feminine Success, with GenZ model, Kelsey Heitzman, #52

Episode Summary

Kelsey Heitzman, a successful model in LA, shares how she balances a successful career with mental health challenges. She opens up about feeling exhausted and leaving the consulting world to be a model, only to feel even more pressure of maintaining a perfect image: Is the cost of success in this industry to have an eating disorder? Why does everyone just think that's normal?!

Episode Notes

Whats the thing that keeps you believing “it’s gotten you this far” but is actually toxic to your mental health? Do we collectively suffer from this? LMK on socials if this episode is relatable!! Did the solutions her therapist provide inspire you, too?

About the episode: Kelsey Heitzman, a successful model in LA, talks about balancing her success with mental health issues. She opens up about feeling exhausted and leaving the consulting world to be a model, only to feel even more pressure to maintain a perfect image: Is the cost of success in this industry to have an eating disorder? Why does everyone just think that's normal?!  We talk about reinventing yourself—how families responds, going to therapy, and why blending the masculine and feminine allow her to express her most authentic, creative, and successful self. 

Chapters:

00:30 Tarot card pull: "What Era of Life Are You In, Kelsey?"

01:40 Embracing Confidence and Unapologetic Self-Expression 

02:34 Navigating Femininity in Male-Dominated Spaces 

05:24 Why Kelsey Left Consulting For Modeling 

07:18 The Impact of Career Choices on Family Relationships 

12:38 Building a New Support System in LA 

16:33 Leveraging Your Authenticity in Toxic Industries 

21:34 Mental Health and the Pressure of Perfection in Modeling 

23:08 Is Healing From Eating Disorder Mean Sacrificing Success As A Model? 

23:27  Group Therapy and Seeking Help 

26:26 Healing To Balance: Work, Creativity, and Self-Care 

28:39 The Virgo Way To Heal For A Sense Of Control and Productivity 

31:00 Reflecting on The Journaling Prompt About “Ways to Connect To Inspiration & Creativity” 

34:27 New Ways To Inspire Yourself When Everything’s Been Said + Done On Socials 

38:26 Rapid Fire Questions: Fear vs Intuition, Lessons From Anxiety, Morning Routines vs Evening Routines 

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Kelsey: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelsey_heitzman/?hl=en 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/ @daddylonglegswoods8048