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#44 Embracing Soft Girl Era: Balance Knowing Yourself, Pushing Yourself, And Caring for Yourself

Episode Summary

If girl-bossing is exhausting and your life consist of too much hustle, hindering you from finding the energy to level up, then is for you. My move to LA was a huge moment for self-reflection and I learned a lot about how 'soft girl era' could help me navigate change. I talk about what being a soft-girl means to me--connecting to emotions, intuition, and practicing self-love and forgiveness as radical acts of self-care, which can make big life change, like moving to LA, smoother. 🫶🏼🌦✨

Episode Notes

10 tips that highlight my key take-aways:

1. Discern between what you want vs what you think you want because of others
2. What’s causing imbalance is disconnecting you from yourself
3. Shame & guilt drain you of energy and focus
4. Perfectionism, another clear indicator for lack of self-worth
5. Selectively use your energy, not everything deserves 150%
6. Where is your self-talk creating imbalance in life?
7. Opinions are like elbows—everyone’s got one
8. Self-love is everything related to how you treat yourself
9. Cultivate self-love by getting to know yourself, seeing yourself as the whole human that you are— flaws and all, accepting and forgiving yourself, but still showing up to do the work.
10. Fear of rejection is your gateway to your next level

Timestamps 

00:11 The Harsh Reality of My First Night in LA 

01:33 Navigating Loneliness and Dating in a New City 

02:19 Confronting Job Dissatisfaction and Finding Purpose 

04:33 Embracing the Soft Girl Era: Less Hustle, More Intuition 

10:36 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Overcoming Perfectionism 

18:35 Learning to Slow Down and Embrace Life's Flow 

24:07 Finding Balance: Embracing Change and Self-Love

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